Children answer questions about dating and marriage
Q: I have a bit of a 'problem' with forcing issues when it comes to dating.If I really like someone I tend to just tell them and get it over with.
In other words, don't feel your sentence needs to end with a question mark.
I'd rather know right then and there if they're going to run. Is there a right time to tell someone that I really like them or even that I'm falling for them?
A: It sounds like it's easier for you to just confirm someone likes you than to let things progress naturally.
A: Step 1: Talk to everyone around you that you don't already know. Step 3: Lastly, if you find you are not getting invited to things, make a point of inviting them somewhere first, even if it is just for them to try a gym class you go to that you think is cool. If the friendship is the most important thing to you, tell her and get it over with, and ditch the guy since she'll likely never be happy with the two of you together.
Even if they can't make it, it will have a reciprocal effect in getting them to return the favour. If it's not, then give it a minute and see what he does over the coming couple of weeks.